Re: becky update
O.S., there is one basic tenet in Christianity which I hope you can focus on.
Goodbye's on this earth are NOT goodbye's forever.
Goodbye's between the two of you are really "see you later".
Continue to live your life the way Becky would want you to do.
Then, when you join her, it will be for eternity - no more parting EVER!!
Prayers continue -
Christ told me to arm myself. If you want me disarmed - - Molon Labe.