Re: becky update
Semper fi, my heartfelt condolences. I will greive with you even though I do not know you personally. My prayers go out for you in this time of grief. I found the following shortly before my Grandmothers demise in 2004. It has helped me through the loss of my Grandmother, 2 uncles and my mother and father. I hope it will help you.
I AM NOT THERE
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there, I did not die.