Re: .38 Davis Industries P-380 question
I too am so sorry to hear about your particular threat. I don't think there is a greater danger than a formeer spouse who targets their family members. I do not envy you and having helped several women in the past I know how difficult it is and how hard to avoid.
Your situation clearly presents new and different particulars than any other form of threat. Especially knowing that you cannot get the police to help you. You are basically on your own and with that in mind, spend some time if you can becoming familiar with "justification", "immediate and unavoidable", reasonable and prudent person" to name a few terms that will make a difference in your actions or reactions when and if he continues to push this situation.
Best wishes and I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts to be able to handle this and that it will go away before you are forced to take any further action.