in my case it's a little like asking a female what shoes she's going to wear
i've been blessed with a understanding wife who supports my gun "collecting" hobby. a lot of safe queens but i do have a few i consider my "carry" guns. a colt 1911, a browning hi-power, a colt detective special. a few times i've slipped a beretta 950 in 22 short in my pocket. i used to carry a radom p-64 in 9x18 almost daily but the wife fell in love with it and she has it resting peacefully in her purse. and my daughter talked me out of a walther ppk in 32 acp she doesn't leave home without it. ok now for a reason or two. with my 1911 and hi-power because it doesn't get much better than that excellent track records and i rather have a single action auto. as for my colt detective it's in 38 special and i feel safe with 6 rds of 158 gr lswchp in+p.