[Double D]

Hello and welcome! You have already got some good suggestions. It does take some hands on to figure out what your comfortable with. If you have the opportunity to shoot some different calibers before you shop that might help. Even if you find what feels right, the recoil may not be what you can handle comfortably. There are many lightweight choices but the recoil will be increased. Dont let someone talk you into something your not comfortable with. Take your time.