Beth, you underestimate me, we ALREADY split the money. TRUST me, I have had many guys I work with tell me NOT to, and that they do NOT tell their wife that they are even GETTING a bonus and go through gyrations to intercept the check so they don't have to tell their wife...
I figure THAT is ONE reason why my wife and I have been HAPPILY married for 30 years and many of them are on their second or third go round

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We share EVERYTHING.
She gets $2k, and I get $2k (minus the Swift,)
The GOOD thing is she has already decided to spend most of her part on stuff we needed already, like a new dishwasher, and a new Weber grill...
But tomorrow we are going shopping, with the goal of finding her a new driver and fairway wood set....
So in the GOLF department she just might GAIN on me....
MY hope is Golfsmith has a slightly used Callaway Left hand set that works for me, if I regrip them all, it might set me back $400 and STILL let me buy my Varmint upper...