Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by ryan42, Oct 5, 2012.

  1. ryan42

    ryan42 New Member

    Jan 28, 2012
    marion indiana
    Obviousley my daughter pissed off a group of girls which used to be her friends.They started making death threats on facebook and twitter towards her.Things like im gonna kill you,im gonna cut you and put you in stitches.yadayada.Then same thing with text messages.I told my daughter not to respond to any of them.The next day one of the girls walked in to my daughters place of work and pushed her.The police were called but did nothing but go talk to them.Two hrs later 2 more girls came in and were ordered to leave and the police were called.This time I was there and when I told the cops that they were making death threats online.The cop said we cant do anything about the online stuff.He said just stay away from the girls.Well around midnight I get home from the hospital from seeing the wife which by the way now has pnemonia.I go to sleep and get a call at 4am from my daughter and she tells me they slashed all 4 of her tires.Kids are great aernt they.I was so mad I told her you run with the dogs ya get fleas.I told her I was very dissappointed in her that she would even have friends like these.If they would listen to there parents they could save alot of grief.What the idiot girls dont realize is the dont just hurt heather but now there hurting mom and dad.Im at my whitts end let me tell ya.
  2. BETH

    BETH Well-Known Member

    Jul 10, 2009
    wow how old is she

  3. mjp28

    mjp28 Well-Known Member

    Dec 17, 2011
    anytown, OHIO
    Geeeezzzzz already!

    Try any hold it together, will insurance cover any of this?

    And count to 10 or 100 if you need to....good luck.
  4. hstout1143

    hstout1143 Well-Known Member

    Jan 3, 2012
    Sorry to hear of your trouble.
  5. Willie

    Willie Active Member

    Jul 31, 2003
    Maybe you could try not to blame her. She wouldn't be the first to use poor judgement in picking her friends. Now maybe she thinks her friends hate her and you do too. Have you ever made a mistake with picking friends? Think how she feels. Bad enough and now her dad is mad too. WOW. Who would you think should stand by her in a time of trouble? Not these friends and now not her dad too. Shame on you. You are supposed to be smarter than that.
  6. watsisname

    watsisname Member

    Jan 24, 2010
    I understand how frustrated you must be but remember your daughter is the victim here and she needs you to be in her corner. Blaming her for having bad friends could just push her away from her loving Dad.
  7. ryan42

    ryan42 New Member

    Jan 28, 2012
    marion indiana
    Now hang on before ya throw me under the bus.I never said I dont stand beside her.I said im disappointed.Far cry than not supporting her.Beth shes 21..put 800 dollars worth of tires on your daughters car and have them ruined and tell me you would be all understanding.If you said you wouldnt be your not being honest.We have evidence of who did this and I set up a meeting with are prosecuter for tuesday.Were going to prosecute on the grounds of assault,harrassment,criminal mischief and vandalising.Now tell me I dont stand behind her.
    Last edited: Oct 5, 2012
  8. Double D

    Double D Administrator Staff Member Supporting Member

    Jul 16, 2009
    North Florida
    You obviously havent followed ryans troubles he has had with his daughter in the past and I think you made an uninformed statement on the subject which is understandable....anyhow, sorry you are having even more problems Ryan...
  9. BETH

    BETH Well-Known Member

    Jul 10, 2009
    shame u have to go through this Ryan maybe u should have a talk with her and see if she will open up and tell u why the girls are doing this
  10. stumpjumper

    stumpjumper Active Member

    Jun 4, 2012
    first, a prayer for the wife. second, I'd pick up a game camera or a cheapo video system for outside your daughters place. rats like that always come back
  11. ryan42

    ryan42 New Member

    Jan 28, 2012
    marion indiana
    Thanks DoubleD,Im always here for my children.Some people like to be there kids buddies but I believe you should be the Parent first.If that makes any sense.You are exacltly right Willie doesnt know anything about me and thats ok my friends here know what im talking about and thats all that matters. From what I gather when my daughter moved back home it made her roomate mad and one of the other girls is mad over an exboyfriend that now likes my daughter.So basicly theres six girls involved.They all were supposedly friends but now the six girls have all turned against her.Just like highschool drama but these kids are in there early twenties.Just to let you know how sick they are this is what happened today. My wife has a nurse named Cathy.Cathey is 62 years old and as sweet as can be.This afternoon she was at a nail salon getting her nails done and there was a young girl across the aisle from her talking on her cell phone.This is the conversation she overheard as well as everyone in the salon.( hey one of my friends sliced all heather stevens tires on her car.hahahaha I didnt do it but michelle did.And let me tell ya this is just the begining.Shes not done with her yet.Ya you know who heather is shes the one that her mom has a bad heart and is about to croc.Serve Heather right.)That was the whole conversation.Little did she know Cathy is Gennys nurse.How Cathy figured out who shes talking about is when she mentioned the mom with the heart problem.Busted Baby.Shes lucky Cathy didnt Smack the hell out of her but she kept quite and reported the conversation to the police officer.I am gonna prosecute as far as I can.Sorry for the long thread.But now you know what I do.
  12. ryan42

    ryan42 New Member

    Jan 28, 2012
    marion indiana
    Good Idea Stumjumper and thanks for the prayers.
  13. BlackEagle

    BlackEagle Well-Known Member Supporting Member

    Nov 25, 2011
    Prayers ongoing from here, Ryan.

    Sorry to hear about that, and hope all goes well with the prosecution. That cannot be allowed to go on. Can your daughter go to some other where?
  14. mogunner

    mogunner Well-Known Member

    Oct 31, 2011
    Eastern Missouri
    The cops can TOO do something about online threats, they are just too ignorant and lazy to. The county prosecutor knows more than they do, obviously. It's a shame that so many LEO's get the job and don't bother to continue their education in the field, makes the good ones work twice as hard to cover their ineptitude.
  15. gvw3

    gvw3 Well-Known Member Supporting Member

    Oct 16, 2011
    Chicago IL Area
    I hope you get a turn of luck Ryan. Kids that age can get into all kinds of problems. I know I have 6 of them.
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