Alzheimer's Disease and a Persistent Parental Caretaker...

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  1. ponycar17

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    Thanks rosie. Everyone is handling the situation surprisingly well.
  2. Capt Mac Turk

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    Today last year my Step mom passed she stayed with my Pops 40+ years and she was pretty much a Saint . he was a real PITA & he had his moments
    He was also getting "out there" & acadents But god bless her she hung in there with him.

    He Died New years night 2011,,,, Jan 8-2012 She died. It was almost as if she said OK I have done all I could to help him & then layed down & gave up


    Then on top of all this my Mother in law lived with Us,
    they say deaths run in threes well Jan 17 She passed.

    My Ashley lost her 3 remaining Grandparents in 18 days
    Really hurt Me & my Wife but Ashley almost dident even blink
    The school knew of what was going on & sent us a notice of a
    Hospice program for kids losing loved ones. "Camp Good Greaf"
    (I think this realy helped her @ age 12)

    Its NEVER easy losing a loved one but 3 in 18 days even put Me & Mary in a tail-spin for a few months.

    You & your Family will be in our Prayers
  3. ponycar17

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    Thanks Capt Mac, and your family will be in my prayers... It's difficult to say the least but that dreaded "3" thing is all-too-often true.

    My Grandfather got word that his health issues have likely turned cancerous and at 75, it's difficult to justify invasive probing to find out what exactly is happening, considering the possible complications. He's at peace. His deadline to ask for a biopsy is tomorrow. I suspect that he'll decline. We're OK with his decision, although this will be a VERY difficult time for all of us. For my step-dad, we had ample notice. My Grandfather however, took a sudden nose-dive. My 4-year old boy is already asking questions about why God wanted his Grandpa. I don't know how we could handle two so close together. :(

    3 would be a definite test for everyone...
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  4. armedandsafe

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    Prayers from here, PonyCar.

    I know the 3's version of which you speak. It is hard on everyone.

    "Cry for your loss. Laugh and glory in your memories." Grandpa Carter.

    Pops
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    Thanks Pops!
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    PONY I relize @ age 4 he will have many Questions, If its available look into it for him.

    http://www.campgoodgrief.org/

    Years down the road (One year in about a month 4 Ashley)
    She still keeps in contact with several of the campers that were in her group.

    I truly beleave it has made it easyer for her to understand & cope with.


    All supervised ~~ 2 days, one night camp @ NO cost, Many Crafts & Activities, game rooms ,Horse back riding, Pool. (So.Fla here they can use it)

    Everyone there, while we were there,
    (My wife & I went to the camp Session before Ashleys camp to observe) they were Very Professional & Caring.

    With it being "Hospice" they have a natural way of talking to & making it easyer for Youngsters to understand.

    Such a hard thing for them to process at that age, My (Birth) Mother died when I was 11 & I wish they had this when I needed it.

    God Bless

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    My prayers are with you too. We have been through much of the same thing over the month of December.
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