The hardiest thing in my life. the Dr and nurses said my Mom's stomack has shut down and rejecting the food from the feeding tube and her kidney's are slowly shutting down. We was told the only reason She's still holding on is because everyone hasn't told her it's ok to go and be out of pain. after told this everyone but one has told her and that one was me. Since my Mom and I has a real tight bond. It was all i could do to build up the nerve to tell her it was ok to go in peace and be out of pain. I truely believe even know I told her it was ok to go that she didn't take and still holding on because of me. It's hard to take. So after what she told us. we've been watching the flowers that was sent to her while in her last hospital stay. The flowers are pretty much dead and we asked her if she wanted us to throw them out. She said No! She's taking them with her. We've all noticed that every day 1 single pettle will fall off the flowers no matter how much they bumped or moved. So we think there the count down on how many day's she has left. Now here's the wierd part. One of my nurses played a wind up music box when she was preg. so the baby would have something to listen too. Once the baby was born they wound up the music so the baby would hear it once it was born. The baby had medical problems. as soon as the wound the music box up the thrid time. Just as soon as the babies heart stopped, so did the music box it was still fully wound up. Then after what my nurse said about theb music box and what my Mom said about the flowers. I think everyone has a sign or something that counts down the time you have left. Thanks for all the prayers and support yall here at TFF has given me thru this hard time. yall are truely a great bunch and a exstend part of my family.