wife wants a carry, special circumstances involved

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  1. 68c15

    68c15 Well-Known Member

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    she has expressed desire to carry a handgun at times. more for visual deterrence than anything although she does want to take it to the range with me and our son. her birthday is Monday and I would like to surprise her with one along with an hour at the local indoor range.

    problem is she has weak hands and back due to fibromyalgia and ankylosing spondilytis.

    I want/need it to be as reliable as my old truck and fairly inexpensive. she is also getting a high dollar digicam.

    I was thinking a S&W model 22 but I've heard rumors.

    whatcha think?
  2. carver

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    I suggest that you have your wife get her hands on as many different guns as possible, and shoot them. Then let her pick what she wants. Read this article, writen by a woman. http://corneredcat.com/What_Gun_for_a_Woman/ When my daughter was 13 she was shooting a .44 magnum, the most powerfull hand gun in the world, at that time.
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  4. UncleFudd

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    68c15

    You said she wants a gun for carry, "more for a visual deterrence".

    What do you mean. Please!!

    UF
  5. Slabsides

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    The "visual deterrence" statement has me concerned too. Displaying/flashing a gun does you no good. In fact, it can get you IN a whole mess of trouble (legally and physically). Learning how to draw and place an effective shot is what gets us out of trouble. Alot of the time, confidence in your skills and situational awareness is what can keep things from even getting that far.
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  6. UncleFudd

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    WHAT SLABSIDE SAYS.

    +1

    UF
  7. pinecone70

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    I never let anyone see my carry gun. I carry a J-frame revolver at all times, which I find more reliable than a semi-auto (I had really bad luck with my first semi-auto carry gun). The smaller revolvers are pretty impressive.
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    JohnHenry Well-Known Member

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    Carver is completely correct !
    Do you have a gun store in your area that has a range connected to it ? If needs be offer to rent some of the guns they have for sale .... that way she can compare one make and model with another ( and you can watch her shoot, see her reactions ).
    The important thing is that she's comfortable with HER gun .
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    Right on. A S&W 642-2 lives in my pocket. I would forget my keys, wallet or cellphone before that piece of survival gear was missed. Always there. Always ready. Never jams or misfeeds.
  10. Double D

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    I guess you stopped carrying your EMP?
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    I did, but only because the EMP is gigantic to try to conceal. :D I have a fabulous Smith 36 that I carry daily, it's lighter and even though it's not really smaller, it isn't as 'printable' as the EMP. Still love that Springfield, it's one of my best shooters.
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    My wife is looking to get her CC permit this spring, she has elbow/shoulder/neck problems so it's been problematic finding the right pistol for her. She nixed the .40 and the 9mm so we're looking at either a small .32 semiauto or a .38 special next.
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    We've been looking at the walther ppk/s in .380, for ashley. Although I wouldn't call it inexpensive.
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    I had my spine fused in my low neck, it's important to shop around. Some models/brands are better than others.
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    I had a lot of trouble with that model, which I purchased new in 2008. It went to Smith & Wesson twice, and returned to me even worse both times.
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