Remington all day long especially if you go with a pistol grip stock; manipulating the tang safety on the mossy is next to impossible without a standard buttstock, the 870 has a cross bolt which is perfect.
remington has a distinct advantage of quality also, love mossberg but just not quite the same.
I'll agree that operating the tang safety on a Mossberg is a stinker if you've got a pistol grip stock on it. On a conventional stock, that's not a problem.
380guy, take a look at the pistol grip stock on the 870 that ka64 posted. Look how much thumb twisting yo need to do to reach the safety up on top of the receiver where it's located on the Mossberg.
Personally, I prefer the 870 over the 500 for other reasons too but I do own both brands.
If your wife will be shooting it too, be sure take her along on your shopping trip and have her give it a test fit too. She might have a completely different preference than anyone that posts their opinion in here.
